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Wednesday, April 11, 2007


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Only one year ago, author Rhonda Byrne's life was a mess. However, all that changed when she discovered a little secret: A sucker is born every minute and people will shell out money if you tell them exactly what they want to hear.

Today, Byrne's life has turned around. She has a number one best selling book, The Secret, which flogs the bizarre notion that if you suppress bad thoughts and place your finger on the "feeling happy" button, life will be a utopia.

"You can think your way to the perfect state of health, the perfect body, the perfect weight and eternal youth," she writes in her loopy tome. "The Secret is the law of attraction. Everything that's coming into your life you are attracting into your life. Imperfect thoughts are the cause of all of humanity's ills, including disease, poverty and unhappiness."

The great irony is that Byrne was correct on the big picture: One can accomplish greatness only by envisioning great things. The author was on the mark, as well, by suggesting that the mind can be trained to tap into a plentiful source of creativity. She was also right to point out that people could improve their health through an optimistic outlook.

Unfortunately, Byrne's book is one of breathtaking irrationality and stunning hubris that largely offsets her more illuminating advice. It is difficult to know whether her impetus to pen the book comes from a metaphysical breakthrough or a nervous breakdown.

For example, she makes the wild claim that through the power of positive thinking she abandoned her reading glasses and restored perfect vision in only three days!

"It is as easy to heal a pimple as a disease," Byrne simplistically jots down. "You cannot catch anything unless you think you can."

Indeed, her attitude towards disease is cruel and appalling. She quotes Bob Proctor, author of "You Were Born Rich," who says, "Disease cannot live in a body that's in a healthy emotional state."

This awful message essentially tells children that if they (or their parents) get sick, they brought it on themselves. Byrne is really suggesting that the thousands of gay men who died of AIDS passed away because they had bad attitudes. She seems not to consider that illness is caused by viruses and bacteria or from unfortunate circumstances. If one is born in Chernobyl, for instance, they have an increased risk of dying of cancer, no matter how steadfastly they push the happy button.

Byrne also crosses the line when she attacks sick people who acknowledge their diseases.

"You are also inviting illness if you are listening to people talking about their illnesses," remarks Byrne. According to this twisted logic, Elizabeth Edwards and Tony Snow are placing the lives of millions of people at risk by discussing their cancer.

Incredibly, Byrne goes on to quote a so-called "teacher" who blames a gay bashing victim for causing his own troubles because he had a negative attitude. I suppose Matthew Shepard's biggest sin was he wasn't happy-go-lucky enough to ward off the thugs that murdered him.

Most outrageous, the author even blames the victims of genocide by claiming they had to be on "the same frequency as the event." Sure, millions of Jews were on the Holocaust frequency and Rwandans were on the "machete me to death" channel.

More benign, but equally bizarre, is Byrne declaration that, "Food cannot cause you to put on weight, unless you think it can." Yeah, right. You can eat a bucket of pork rinds and still look like Naomi Campbell.

Another doozie is when she quotes "wealth specialist" David Schirmer who says, "I would visualize a parking space exactly where I wanted it, and 95 percent of the time it would be there." Why doesn't the clown do something useful like visualize the end of the war in Iraq?

In yet another spin down Ludicrous Lane, the author says, "It is as easy to manifest one dollar as it is $1 million." And, she says, "When you have a pile of bills that you have no idea how you are going to pay, you cannot focus on the bills, because you will continue to attract more bills." Tell that to the "Repo Man."

Feeling old? "Beliefs about aging are all in our mind." (Amazing, how most of us die between 70 and 80.)

The sad Secret is that this best seller is just another slick form of "drink the KOOL-ADE" fundamentalism. The main difference is that God had his name changed to "The Universe." Like the Bible, this book will transform many lives for the better. However, it will also be abused and do grave harm, not to mention line the pockets of a New Age charlatan who is making millions by peddling false miracles.

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Monday, April 09, 2007

(Pictured: student taking part in Day of Silence)

'Day of Truth' Promotes Shame and Pushes 'Ex-Gay' Conversion Therapy In Public Schools, Says Filmmaker Daniel Gonzales

MIAMI BEACH, Fla. - Truth Wins Out unveiled a new video today on YouTube examining the "Day of Truth" which aims to push gay youth into 'ex-gay' conversion programs. In response to GLSEN's "Day of Silence" where gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth remain silent to protest the silencing effect discrimination and harassment has on LGBT youth, the far right Alliance Defense Fund created a "Day of Truth" one day after the pro-gay "Day of Silence."

"The 'Day of Truth' is nothing but an elaborate attempt by right wing groups to push junk psychology and bad-theology on gay youth," says Daniel Gonzales who helped write and narrate the video. Gonzales is a former patient of 'ex-gay' therapist and NARTH president Joseph Nicolosi.

The religious right sells their "Day of Truth" as a compassionate message of truth but this film examines how the real message being pushed at this event is neither compassionate nor truthful.

Link to Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HI4-eDG3Bb0

Truth Wins Out is a non-profit organization that counters right-wing propaganda, exposes the "ex-gay" myth and educates America about gay life. For more information, visit http://www.TruthWinsOut.org.

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