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For nearly six years, Richard Cohen was the Tom Cruise of the so-called "ex-gay" movement. His book, Coming Out Straight, was all the rage and catapulted him into the realm of superstar status. In 2000, he was even a featured therapy trainer at the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality's (NARTH) annual convention in Washington's prestigious Mayflower Hotel.
Many of the religious right's elite, such as Rev. Lou Sheldon and Bob Knight, graced the gilded conference hall, which I also attended while working on my book, Anything But Straight. During Cohen's presentation, he discussed how men who are "transitioning into heterosexuality" must find mentors.
"I solicited all three of my straight male mentors," Cohen recalled. "'Would you like me to service you? I'm really good at it,' I told each one of them. When they rejected me, I knew they loved me for who I am."
Most of the middle-aged conservatives in the crowd looked stunned and a tad sickened by Cohen's inappropriate remarks. Still, they followed his orders to take off their shoes and massage each other's backs while new age music piped through the speakers. "Touch, Yes! Sex no!" Cohen bellowed. Following his demonstration, there was a mad rush to Cohen's booth where he was hawking his book. The right wing was so infatuated with their new gay-healing guru they ignored passages in his book that revealed he once belonged to a bizarre sex cult. They even "overlooked" disturbing pictures of him banging a tennis racket against a pillow while yelling out his father's name.
Cohen was soon catapulted to the board presidency of Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX). Until Cohen's arrival, the group was primarily an outlet for its leader, Regina Griggs, to vindictively get back at her son for coming out to her as gay. Cohen quickly seized control of the message and ludicrously cast ex-gays as victims of discrimination and set PFOX's sights on getting their theories into the public schools.
Like Tom Cruise, Cohen's bright star eventually crashed because people started to realize that this guy just might be nuts. The wheels began to fall off the car when I got a tip that Cohen had been kicked out of the American Counseling Association in 2002. He managed to hide this career suicide from the public until I informed the media in 2005.
With his counseling career in ruins, Cohen turned to the media as his only channel to attract new clients to his "healing" seminars. However, his act that played so well at the NARTH convention made him look like a quack to mainstream Americans. On his appearance on CNN's Paula Zahn Now earlier this year, Cohen actually performed his tennis racket routine to the guffaws of million of viewers. He made a further buffoon of himself on ABC's Jimmy Kimmel Live where boxer George Foreman, who was also a guest, looked as if he wanted to give him a left hook. He further disgraced his image on Showtime's Bullshit, starring comedians Penn and Teller. (Boxer George Foreman looks Away In Horror As Cohen Touches Him)
However, Cohen's "jumping on Oprah's couch moment" came on his appearance with me on Comedy Central's The Daily Show with Jon Stewart. To prove he was heterosexual, Cohen belched and cursed and when he was feeling the heat, he got up in the middle of the interview to "shake it off."
Cohen's antics were even more than PFOX and NARTH could take and they heaved him overboard, purging their websites this month of his kooky books and articles. The largest ex-gay group, Exodus International, even put out a statement saying they do not endorse the counselor's work.
In kneecapping their Top Gun, these groups have been quite disingenuous. Richard Cohen did nothing wrong other than make public what the right wing strongly endorsed and applauded behind closed doors. Cohen's only real sin is that he went on television. As far as his outrageous and ridiculous therapies, NARTH and PFOX intimately knew about them for at least six years, as they are vividly discussed in his book. So, these disloyal groups are not dumping Cohen because he is off his rocker, they are dumping him because he is off-message.
Cohen may be the fall guy, but the fact that conservatives fell in love with him in the first place demonstrates how they will embrace practically anyone who is willing to make their living condemning homosexuals.
10 Comments:
I just watched the video of Rchard Cohen on Jimmy Kimmel, he mentioned about Rosy O'Donnel I'm surprised She did'nt take his tennis racket and beat him over the head instead of a pillow.
posted by Anonymous, at
4/05/2007 9:21 AM
Foreman was probably thinking, 'this pansy-ass needs to have his butt roasted on one of ma grills'. After the picture with leather guy was taken, I wonder if Cohen's hand slid down and started twirling the guy's nipple.
posted by Anonymous, at
4/05/2007 9:22 AM
Isn't there a law that can coerce this homosexually-obsessed buffoon stop manipulating and hurting unsuspecting gay but unhappy men?
posted by Unknown, at
4/06/2007 2:16 PM
The references to Tom Cruise in that article are pointless and gratuitous. Besen really needs to get over his obsession with him.
posted by Anonymous, at
4/06/2007 6:31 PM
What is almost entirely missing from most media is the recognition that the ex-gay movement is 100% about profit whether it comes in the collection basket or in the exorbitant fees charged by ex-gay programs. These groups are not providing a service out of the goodness of their hearts but rather for profit plain and simple --profit at the violation of many gay youth. Let's face it, cohen could purchase many many tennis rackets for the money he's put in his pocket by taking this position.
posted by Image Drop, at
4/07/2007 12:51 PM
"What's wrong with that"??!?! Plenty numbnuts! It's total bullshit that rips off the minds and pockets of people who are at their most vulnerable; many of whom attempt suicide when it fails (which it always does!) Following your flawed logic, if I 'believe' that Jesus will heal my desperately ill child with prayer only, even though modern medicine could save her life, I have the right to do that. 'So what's wrong with that?'
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